Today I have spent most of my time reading and replying to wonderful comments after putting a shortened version of my story on Facebook. I am totally humbled by the love and support that I have been shown, yes there have been some shocked responses but nothing negative at all. We chose to go down the route of a controlled roll out of information after long discussions with Denise and my psychologist and it has proved to be the best possible plan, apart from one person everyone I have told has either kept it a secret or asked us if it was ok to tell someone else which we are so thankful for, we both really appreciate your integrity and discretion.